LOVE IS NOT A BATTLEFIELD – AN EXCERPT FROM HEALING MY ANXIETY BY JULIA BAR

“Love is easy with the right person. Don’t go by their appearance alone. You need someone who is a decent human being, compatible with you, has similar life goals and with whom you have chemistry. Give them a chance and see what develops.”

Agree, but don’t know how to meet such a person? Believe in destiny. Believe that there is someone out there just for lovely you. Do everything you can to increase your chances. I am well aware that there are not enough eligible men. Girls, do not despair. You can even meet someone on a deserted island should this be your destiny. Of course, a lack of men may leave you lonely for periods of time, as you will not always have a boyfriend. I used to say that even though there are few decent men out there, I only need one. And you only need one. So the odds are in your favor J

Ability to laugh and have fun is so important. Your Mr. Right may be around the corner, but you live today. May as well enjoy every day. Surveys show that the vast majority of people rate being with their friends higher than being with their partners. Hard to beliebookfrontve, but true.

I also learned some other things. I learned that it is important to continue your life and not give up your other activities. You and your partner cannot be together all the time and you need to keep yourself happy and busy. Give your work 100%. To continue seeing your friends; keep your hobby. Don’t bombard your loved one with phone calls or messages. Give them space and opportunity to miss you. Be equal, not a hanger-on. People are naturally attracted to strong happy personalities, not clingy, whining ones. The less you show neediness, the stronger your relationship will be. Prepare to compromise. Even with your soul mate, not everything will go your way. Know what is important and what is not.”http://amzn.to/11bLJOQ or contact Julia by leaving a message on her website: http://healingmyanxiety.com

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One comment on “LOVE IS NOT A BATTLEFIELD – AN EXCERPT FROM HEALING MY ANXIETY BY JULIA BAR

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